Women always blame men, for pretty much everything. We always end up being with the same guy over and over again just with a different name. (hopefully!) Perhaps it is us, women with the problem. At first the relaionship is great, you couldn’t ask for more, but then you wonder what is wrong with him? Why didn’t he already have a girlfriend? We then pick at him until we find all his flaws.. And if you cant find any, some of us push them away sayin their too needy. Is it possible just maybe there was nothing wrong wih him? I know most women would say no, there was something wrong, “he snored too loud”, “his a mama’s boy”, “his a girls guy.” these are all “flaws” that are things we can live with if not change. But no, we are all looking for our prince. Get over it girls. He isn’t coming! You go and look for him! Don’t wait for him to make a move because guys are very dumb at times!

And for you girls that actually think there is such thing as a prince charming.. there isnt! love is what you make it... if you seat there and think of all these amazing things about ur dream guy no guy will ever measure up! we, ladies, spend to much time dreaming our lives away to realize that we loved.. perhaps it wasnt the magical guy that your lifetime of reading fairy tales created but never the less you have loved.. nothing is perfect and we need to cut the boys some slack.. they try.. but however, they are just boys.. dont expect this grand gesture.. expect just a simple im sorry.. or i like you.. dont ask him why he does..well atleast not right way because the only reason why i guy would like you before actually knowing you is your body.. lets face it ladies we know it.. and even if we dont like to admit it.. we like it at times.. n i dont mean those creepers looking down your shirt.. or anything thing like that.. but simple things like feeling your hair.. or the quick glance at the twins and whats in the back.. but dont stare its creepy!!! in all reality its your looks that get his attention or hers.. after that you have to show yourself.. and come on people.. dont be fake.. saying you like long walks on the beach!!! like really? who cares if you watched star wars 1000000 times.. just dont expect every girl or guy you date to watch it with you every time.. that doesnt mean they dont like you that just means they dont like the movie..and ladies.. for real? making your guy watch chick flicks?? and if they dont you get mad??  for the first date what you should do is do sometihng you both will enjoy.. not go to the movie where the guy is thinkin "when is this gonna be over?!" n the girl saying the same thing.. if you have a bad first date.. then guess what?? odds are that ur relationship will be bad.. unless ofcourse your one of those couples that had the worst date of your life and it turned out to be the best.. n i dont mean making your guy or girl do something they dont want.. i mean the stupid stuff like spilling your drink all over your date.. walkin into the door cuz ur too busy lookin at your date.. that kinda stuff..

So lets face it.. girls there is no such thing as the guy you made up in ur head.. that doesnt mean there isnt someone out there for you.. i believe in soul mates.. i found mine but his my best friend not my lover.. dont expect too much because your going to be let down.. n guys.. it doesnt hurt to talk to the girl next door.. she will be your fave excuse to go out side when you actually open your eyes!